Chris Rosati, ALS & “The Blessings of My Disease”

Tamara Lackey —  May 19, 2014

When Chris Rosati was first diagnosed with ALS (historically known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease), it came as a pretty incredible shock to he and his wife. What had started out as muscle twitches, and eventually some muscle weakness, now had a diagnosis – ALS, Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis, a disease that attacks motor neurons (the cells that control our muscles), a disease that changes what you knew as your life, a disease that is fatal.

A diagnosis of ALS can change everything.

And for Chris Rosati, it did.  In fact, he has quite a lot to share about just how many blessings this diagnosis has brought into his life.

 

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

Happily married to his rather lovely wife of ten years, Anna, the two of them have two high-energy, beautiful daughters, Logan, age 8, and Delaney, age 3. Anna had actually been pregnant with Delaney when Chris was first diagnosed.

But when you speak to Chris about ALS, he refers to all the blessings of the disease, how he used to worry all the time and how he simply doesn’t anymore. He cares, deeply, for those he loves; but he doesn’t worry anymore.  His intention is to truly live his life – and to live it well.

I had the good fortune of spending a few hours with Chris, Anna, and their daughters on a photo shoot recently, and I felt the power of that intention, to live fully, to worry less, to be grateful. It’s really quite striking, a truly palpable energy.

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

Referring to hearing his daughter’s footsteps patter down the hallway, Chris Rosati is so very clear on what matters – he used to hear common sounds like that, and it’d be background; now her footsteps are the focus, the full focus. There is quite a difference in that, in what we put first. He shares some of his perspective in this CBS news story.

To that end, he founded the Inspire Media Network, encouraging other people to live their lives fully, to not wait to be amazing – to love deeply, to pursue their dreams and to help others in the process.  Chris believes that, by sharing our adversities, we help each other, that seeing how someone else has “overcome the same seemingly impossible circumstances that we may face can give hope to the hopeless”.  And he doesn’t just mean an illness – he refers to anything that can “knock people to their knees”, like the loss of a job, or a divorce, or the death of a loved one.

One of Chris Rosati’s goals is to help bring more awareness to ALS.  And, coincidentally, May is ALS Awareness Month.  To help support that effort, he is also creating a film, The Blessings of My Disease, which you can help fund – and he states:

“ALS is devastating. But there are some blessings. I get to be amazed by the good in people every day. I get to experience an overwhelming and never ending wave of love. I hardly ever worry, and never about something trivial. I now see beauty in so many simple things. I no longer fear failure… or much of anything else. I know something you don’t know – something wonderful. And I know how blessed I am.”

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

I had first heard of Chris Rosati when my 12 year-old daughter wanted to do a project with her friends, BIGG (Big Ideas for the Greater Good), a contest that Chris was hosting to encourage students to get creative about doing good things for others. I heard of him again when our mutual friend, Laura Zimmerman Whayne, shared more details of his story, leading me to read up on his super cool Krispy Kreme Heist, his plan to hijack a Krispy Kreme doughnut delivery truck and deliver the goods – see more about how Krispy Kreme gave him one instead (his first delivery stop was a Duke cancer treatment center). Laura had also mentioned that he would be speaking at our daughters’ school as part of an effort he was making to go school to school, to spread his message of love, hope, and fearlessness.

And his name came up a third time when my 12-year old came home from school after just listening to him speak to the entire middle school in assembly.  She walked in the door, eyes shining, and said “Mom, I heard Chris Rosati speak, you remember him?, he’s not afraid at all. I mean, he knows he is going to die, have you heard of ALS?, and he says none of us have to be afraid, how much worry doesn’t matter, he doesn’t anymore, it was all so amazing, listening to him …” and she proceeded to tell me nearly everything he said. I truly hadn’t ever seen her that impacted by someone she’d heard speak before.

I was so moved that I coordinated with Laura to reach out to Anna and Chris, and we arranged to do this family portrait session. It was truly a privilege for me to do – and it was really just a fun outing, in general.

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

As we meandered around, we had a chance to talk.  We watched Delaney assert her desire for something, as 3 year-olds naturally do so well, and Chris commented, with a smile, “That’s good.  She’s strong-willed, that’s going to really help her in life.”

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

 

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

 

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

Watching Chris and Anna together is quite something, too.  There’s so much undeniable love there, such sweetness when they look at each other. There is loss on the way, there currently seems no way around that, but there is right now right now – there is living fully today – and you see exactly what it means to live up to those words.

When Chris says to not wait to be amazing, this is what he means, the way they are right here.

Chris Rosati, ALS, Portraits by Tamara Lackey

 

Love deeply,
pursue your dreams,
help others in the process.

Got it.

 

 

 

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10 responses to Chris Rosati, ALS & “The Blessings of My Disease”

  1. Such a beautiful series of images, Tamara – they showcase how he compels us all so powerfully. I could read this over and over and each time be reminded to live NOW. Thanks for sharing such inspiring people with so many.

  2. Tamara the photos are as beautiful as the family in them. Chris follows the Zen tradition of “living in the moment”. If only we could all adhere to what Chris has shown us. Thank you for sharing Chris’ journey.

  3. Laura Zimmerman Whayne May 19, 2014 at 5:07 pm

    Tamara,
    True blessing to see your artistry come to life. The pictures are wonderful. Chris looks just the same now as he did to me when we were 17! But….wiser…he holds the secret to happiness and has handled his ALS with a grace we can not truly comprehend. Thank you for sharing and for capturing these moments for them …. and for us to share. LOVE

  4. Beautiful! You captured their spirit…well done!

  5. Scott Nickell May 22, 2014 at 3:30 pm

    Beautiful story and images! Thank you for sharing.

  6. You seem like a lovely family and I don’t want to give you false hope but when I heard your recent segment on cbs evening news I immediately remembered something I saw on tv. It was a special on lyme disease called “Under Our Skin” which aired in Oct 2013. The show investigated the cause and treatment of lyme disease. Many lyme patients are dismissed or misdiagnosed with a variety of illnesses including parkisons disease, lupus, ALS, even mental illness. Remember too that not all patients with lyme disease test positive. The lyme pathogen is a spirochete that can find its way into every part of the body including the brain. In the “under our skin” show they showed a man diagnosed with ALS who was dying, unable to walk, etc. Once diagnosed with lyme disease,he was started on a very aggressive treatment of antibiotics and began to improve. While he was left with some residual neurological damage it showed him later walking and clearly on the road to recovery. You have to watch this show. Just maybe it could be the miracle you have been hoping for. Wishing you and your family the very best. sincerely sherrie stose

  7. Kathy McLaughlin June 15, 2014 at 2:22 pm

    Beautiful….the images, the story, this family….simply beautiful, and inspiring. God Bless you, Chris, on this journey.

  8. I had my brother with the SLA, Sclerosi Laterale Amiotrofica.
    Chris sincere wishes to you and your beautiful family.
    Congratulations for the beautiful photos!
    Sorry for my english!
    Giancarlo Ciarrocca

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